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Question by anon: My wife of 10 years constantly invites her ex lovers, ex boyfriends, ex husband over for family gatherings..?
I understand inviting the ex husband with his wife for special occasions since my wife and her ex do share a daughter together who is now 24 and with her own child. What i don’t understand is inviting her ex lover with his wife and kids, her random ex boyfriends with their girlfriends…they are all nice people and all…but I really do not feel comfortable sitting at a table full of people who f***** my wife. Am I being unreasonable? she IS a very charismatic and beautiful woman but sometimes I feel like she doesn’t understand me. I told her how I feel about this and she just says, “Michael, please you’re giving me a headache” Please somebody offer me advice on how to approach this another way? ps…we were also on holiday all together (she invited all of them with my money by the way!) and her ex lover was hugging my wfe from behind (his wife was present) and saying, “you know how much i love you” i understand this is all innocent and she likes being this mother teresa and ‘leader” of the pack…but frankly I’m getting sick of it.
*It seems like she doesn’t take me seriously…she either tells me to be quiet, rolls her eyes, talks very quietly and calmly and I am angry, sighs. The problem is that i am madly in love with her and I want her 24/7 and the sex is great. So that is why I have been putting up with this for this long. She invites everyone over to our place…we have a house in the countryside. She buys everyone expensive gifts….(with my money…not that I’m gready or anything but she bought her ex husband that’s broke a rolex—and she doesn;t work) she also invites catering over on these get togethers…”as if that’s really needed”…we have a 5 year old daughter together so usually her ex’s bring all their kids around too…which is you know, annoying is an understatement. Oh and yeah…since my wife’s older daughter who is 24 had a baby recently guess who has to support the baby? me of course. I bought her a car, apartment, and she had an affair with my chauffer! so now the chauffer lives with my wife’s daughter and whenever I need to be picked up…I have to wait until the daughter let’s him go….I put up with so much and this is what I get in return?
*another thing that really annoys me is when everyone gets a little tipsy (from wine) her ex husband starts telling everyone how madly in love they were in college and the passion they had…that they were each other’s firsts….
*by the way…i bought MY ex wife (we share a son together) a new car and my wife went crazy on me over it….but when she does random things it’s okay.
*Apart from that she is a great wife….don’t get me wrong…always keeping everything in a very neat condition, running the household, very good cook, takes care of her wifely duties…but the guest issue is just way over my head.
(For those of you who say invite your ex wife along I would and my wife tells me to but my ex wife says, “no thanks” lol ” I started seeing my current wife when i was still married with my ex and she was pregnant with our son so she still didn’t let go of those hurt feelings) On those “gathering” I just flirt with my wife’s friend’s daughter when she brings her along…she’s 22 and cute as a button.
oh and to add to that…I support my wife’s dad financially who lives in Cuba and has a whole different family which is broke. I basically support half of Cuba since their family is so huge. (I wouldn’t mind this at all…if my wife didn’t show me how much she appreciates things that are done for her)
And I tried controlling her spending (I don’t mind if she spents money because I do earn quite a lot…but she comes home from boutiques very frequently with almost half of the clothes in the store! she hides the checks and everything…an I fought with her OVER and OVER again but when he had our little angel daughter I let things slide…I do give up…we have a child together anyway
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