Heading for Divorce, things not looking so good?
Posted in Used Rolex on Jul 23rd, 2011 2 Comments »
my spouse an I have been together for 3 years married , when I married him he was much different as soon as we got engaged I should’ve seen the signs ( rose colored glasses) we have gotten to a point where he belittles me , cusses me out if sex wasn’t good enough for him. Tells me I am stupid for having a dream to compete in the ROLEX ( horse jumping ) , say that I need to get it through my head that women are second in a marriage, that I think I am better than every one else, I am a snob, I don’t cook or clean and I am LAZY , He is the man of the house and it is nice i have idea’s about decorating , But they will not happen. ( HIS WAY is the right way if I would just listen, ….
I own a business , he is away from home almost 80 percent of the year.. so i run the house , the business and the stable all by myself. Then when he comes home he gets bossy and controlling. I feel like I can’t breath air right for him.
I took a break for a vacation to a major city I use to live, and left him at home just i could clear my head with in days he started a fight with me again stating more of everything previously posted , and i could hear him loud and clear the words he was telling me ( awful) he asked me if i was leaving him and wanted a divorce ( i said ” NO ” ) but i will not be spoken to like this anymore so now today he hasn’t called me …
I am wondering what is going through his head , everything is swirling i feel if i allow that behavior to continue and go back i might as well just lay down and accept that is the way life will always be.
I don’t know anymore , just stressed out , feel like dirt, any advice out there.
i admit the house isn’t as clean as it should be , but i am dog tired when i get done with my day, he doesn’t do anything around the house himself. he says that is my fault because do to much. he hates the fact I have a time consuming hobby that takes time away from him when he is home. but I can’t just drop everything because he finally home , life just doesn’t stop because he said so. plus he doesn’t see that he drinks to much as well he takes a beer to the night stand while most people take a glass of water. ( but he doesn’t think he has a problem
Answer by surestep1
If that’s the way he treats you; WHAT do you need him for… Abuse in any form is not acceptable.
Dump his butt… Tell him to find a MAN of his choice. From what he sounds like, that’s all he should get.