Question by Ian D: Hot Women Just Like Hot Cars? Is It Fair?
I have a friend who loves expensive sports cars (Porches, Ferraris, etc), but he can’ t afford one. So from time to time he’ll get dressed up in a nice suit, fake Rolex, go to an exotic car dealer and test drive a few. He tells them he’s a commodity broker in the financial district, they buy it everytime.
Anyway, he decided to try this concept out on hot chicks and it works! He gets all decked out, trades a little overtime at work for use of his boss’ Mercedes, and heads out to the clubs, where he makes his appearance as “Lance Simmons”, commodity broker (no I’m not kidding!). Suffice to say, he’s been known to take some of these fine ladys on a test drive (right to their place and he park’s them on their beds). Next morning he’s gone and never calls them. I’ve seen him do it a few times.
He would’ve never had a shot with girls like these before. He used to try and would get shot down everytime.
So, is this fair? Do you think these women are truly expecting anything more?
Best answer:
Answer by William S
You gotta remember that people base their decisions rationally. And that they do it based on “the whole picture”, which is derived by what they see in a person. Your friend must’ve been a 7 (an average joe), but after the rolodex, suit, and mercedez, he must’ve seemed like a 10.
The way it normally works is if a woman is a 10, can go out with anyone she wants. However, she will most likely pick a 10. The only way she will pick a 7 is if the male 7 brings a lot more to the relationship than a 10 would.
IE: (neglecting personality)
An average looking man with average income is a 7.
But and average looking man with high income is an 7, 8, 9, or 10, depending on how high his income is.
An average looking woman with average income is a 7.
But a below average looking woman with average income is below a 7.
The reason hot women are now dating your friend is because they perceive him as a 10 and therefore on their level, rather than below them. And therefore, they are expecting more of him, than they would if he was just a 7.
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